Most of
us go through our days on autopilot, not really living, but merely existing. We
have so much outwardly, but feel so empty and lost on the inside. We allow our
minds to keep us up late at night, mulling over things that don’t really matter
in the end, such as bills, money, what others think of us, etc.
Why do we do this to ourselves?
Of course, none of us truly knows the
answers and what happens to us after this life, and we’ve all been thrown into
the same boat. How we navigate this life, however, and the choices we make
along the way, define our character and existence. Our experiences and choices
shape us, but many of us spend our lives locked into commitments chasing money
and power and stability instead of digging deep within us.
We count down the hours on the clock
until we can go home for the day, rest, and do it all again the next day. We run around all chasing something, and wake up one day
wondering why we even chased it. It may not matter to you now what you do with
each day of your life, but maybe this advice from a dying 24-year-old will give
you a wake up call.
He posted his story on a Reddit
thread, and ever since, it’s gone viral. We hope you will take some
wisdom away from this young man, and realize that we only have a short time on
this planet. We may as well make the most of it, and love and live as
authentically as we possibly can before our time is up.
Read on for the letter, and share it
far and wide if you feel inclined to do so.
POWERFUL ADVICE FROM A DYING 24 YEAR
OLD
“I am only 24 years old, yet I have
actually already chosen my last tie. It’s the one that I will wear on my funeral a few months from now. It may not
match my suit, but I think it’s perfect for the occasion.
The cancer diagnosis came too late to
give me at least a tenuous hope for a long life, but I realized that the most
important thing about death is to ensure that you leave this world a little
better than it was before you existed with your contributions . The way I’ve
lived my life so far, my existence or more precisely the loss of it, will not
matter because I have lived without doing anything impactful.
Before, there were so many things
that occupied my mind. When I learned how much time I had left, however, it
became clear which things are really important. So, I am writing to you for a
selfish reason. I want to give meaning to my life by sharing with you what I
have realized:
– Don’t waste your time on work that
you don’t enjoy. It is obvious
that you cannot succeed in something that you don’t like. Patience, passion, and dedication come
easily only when you love what you do.
– It’s stupid to be afraid of others’
opinions. Fear weakens and paralyzes you. If you let it, it can grow worse and
worse every day until there is nothing left of you, but a shell of yourself.
Listen to your inner voice and go with it. Some people may call you crazy, but
some may even think you‘re a legend.
– Take control of your life Take full
responsibility for the things that happen to you. Limit bad habits and try to
lead a healthier life. Find a sport that makes you happy. Most of all, don’t
procrastinate. Let your
life be shaped by decisions you made, not by the ones you didn’t.
– Appreciate the people around you.
Your friends and relatives will always be an infinite source of strength and
love. That is why you shouldn’t take them for granted.
It is difficult for me to fully
express my feelings about the importance of these simple realizations, but I
hope that you will listen to someone who has experienced how valuable time is.
I’m not upset because I understand
that the last days of my life have become meaningful. I only regret that I will
not be able to see a lot of cool stuff that should happen soon like the
creation of AI, or Elon Musk’s next awesome project. I also hope that the war
in Syria and Ukraine will end soon.
We care so much about the health and
integrity of our body that until death, we don’t notice that the body is
nothing more than a box – a parcel for delivering our personality, thoughts,
beliefs and intentions to this world. If there is nothing in this box that can
change the world, then it doesn’t matter if it disappears. I believe that we
all have potential, but it also takes a lot of courage to realize it.
You can float through a life created
by circumstances, missing day after day, hour after hour. Or, you can fight for what
you believe in and write the great story of your life. I hope you will make the right choice.
Leave a mark in this world. Have a
meaningful life, whatever definition it has for you. Go towards it. The place
we are leaving is a beautiful playground, where everything is possible. Yet, we
are not here forever. Our life is a short spark in this beautiful little planet
that flies with incredible speed to the endless darkness of the unknown
universe. So, enjoy your time here with passion. Make it interesting. Make it
count!
Thank you!”
